tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-27951012.post4890579844213505835..comments2024-01-30T11:58:34.293-05:00Comments on Every Square Inch: Criticism and the ChristianUnknownnoreply@blogger.comBlogger10125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-27951012.post-84372916148492353892009-10-09T03:45:44.916-05:002009-10-09T03:45:44.916-05:00Yes, ESI. Surely true for us all!
Let's just ...Yes, ESI. Surely true for us all!<br /><br />Let's just say that as we walk in the Spirit we do not fulfill the lusts of the flesh which includes prideful thinking and living (note the works of the flesh listed in Galatians).<br /><br />At the same time we're works in process and it's not like we've arrived to perfect humility. Though I think by God's grace we can arrive to levels of humility and unpride that are good for that time. Then God can uncover more in his good time along the way.<br /><br />And again, it's a question of focus as I share in the analogy at Susan's blog.Ted M. Gossardhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10580691315315271791noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-27951012.post-87102401594523983232009-10-08T17:50:54.680-05:002009-10-08T17:50:54.680-05:00I was thinking - "lust of the flesh, lust of ...I was thinking - <i>"lust of the flesh, lust of the eyes, the pride of life"</i>. <br /><br />Lust means I want something I can't have - whether it's because it's not OK or it's just not OK now, I want what I want when I want it - <i>"I want to be in control"</i>. <br /><br />The "pride of life" - <i>"I want to be in control"</i>.<br /><br />I guess it all boils down to idolatry for me - and by me :(Halfmomhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06335655101343184062noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-27951012.post-74788812199875784062009-10-08T16:44:58.735-05:002009-10-08T16:44:58.735-05:00Ted - At least for my own life, pride is an issue ...Ted - At least for my own life, pride is an issue - both explicit and implicit.Every Square Inchhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11636924397725214300noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-27951012.post-70775591146311977392009-10-08T04:52:26.179-05:002009-10-08T04:52:26.179-05:00And I'm not denying that pride is not an issue...And I'm not denying that pride is not an issue, and likely it is in place always in some measure. A part of us as sinners. But I'm just doubting that it is necessarily preeminent as some make it to be. (though maybe they're right!)Ted M. Gossardhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10580691315315271791noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-27951012.post-42382701801009907812009-10-08T04:41:29.139-05:002009-10-08T04:41:29.139-05:00You should always listen to it and weigh it before...You should always listen to it and weigh it before God and take time to do so. There usually is some sort of truth in it somewhere and somehow. The older I get the more I do so. Don't jump to conclusions either way. Be open. That's where I'm at on this now.<br /><br />As to pride, yes, sure. But there are other factors involved as well. Pride is overblown at times, I believe. Many people have experienced gross injustice and there are other factors played out in their lives which make them distrusting of criticism. But they need, in Jesus, to come to be open to it.Ted M. Gossardhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10580691315315271791noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-27951012.post-88458620016714813532009-10-07T18:51:16.745-05:002009-10-07T18:51:16.745-05:00Inverted craving - I understand that!!
Sharing ho...Inverted craving - I understand that!!<br /><br />Sharing honestly - why not - God already knows it all...Halfmomhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06335655101343184062noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-27951012.post-31747443833177085152009-10-07T18:46:14.209-05:002009-10-07T18:46:14.209-05:00Susan - I understand.
Your point about the lin...Susan - I understand. <br /><br />Your point about the link between the fear of man and pride is spot on. Someone once characterized our fears as inverted cravings... it's the craving for the approval of men that leads to fear of men's opinions.<br /><br />thanks for sharing so honestlyEvery Square Inchhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11636924397725214300noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-27951012.post-14398800021681606402009-10-07T07:26:59.000-05:002009-10-07T07:26:59.000-05:00I think that RLB has gotten to the bottom of, at l...I think that RLB has gotten to the bottom of, at least part, of the problem. It is pride, pure and simple. Like the garden, we want to be the ones in control, the ones who have the knowledge, power, etc. So often over the course of the years I've considered my "fear of man" issues to be lack of an appropriate self image. What I've come to recognize is that it is far more a pride issue.<br /><br />How easy am I to offer criticism to? I don't know the answer to that. I suspect, though, that it depends on who is offering it. If they are already have my respect I'm much more likely to listen well. If not, or if I'm predisposed by previous interactions, to think the person lacking in wisdome or having impure motives, far less likely to listen. <br /><br />However, I had a pastor many, many years ago that taught us to always listen for "a kernal of truth in a field of criticism". Certainly it has been true in my life that even the most unfair and harsh criticism still has, by God's grace, a kernal of truth that I need to take away.<br /><br />Good post - hard topic.Halfmomhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06335655101343184062noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-27951012.post-29159489436964002702009-10-05T17:59:38.241-05:002009-10-05T17:59:38.241-05:00RLB - I feel your pain. Receiving criticism isn&...RLB - I feel your pain. Receiving criticism isn't natural to any of us. But really knowing that we've been accepted by God on the basis of Christ opens the door for us to be vulnerable and "real". We can afford to take risks when we know that God is with us....at least we're positioned to do so,Every Square Inchhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11636924397725214300noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-27951012.post-88905584102293527162009-10-03T20:58:27.713-05:002009-10-03T20:58:27.713-05:00ESQ
This really nails me between the eyes. I dont...ESQ<br /><br />This really nails me between the eyes. I dont like to be criticized..IT hurts.<br /><br />So I do everything i can to avoid criticism. I protect myself, which means i dont take the necessary risks.<br /><br />I fail to speak up. I fail to converse. I fail to be real.<br /><br />To avoid crticism is really a matter of pride.<br /><br />DavidRed Letter Believershttp://www.redletterbelievers.comnoreply@blogger.com